Comments on: Just Throwing This Out There http://goodgollymissblondie.com/2010/01/just-throwing-this-out-there/ A single mom, trying to balance life in the dating scene, motherhood, and work while trying to find the humor in it all. Mon, 06 Sep 2010 01:36:25 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: SueAnn Wade-Crouse http://goodgollymissblondie.com/2010/01/just-throwing-this-out-there/comment-page-1/#comment-11275 SueAnn Wade-Crouse Sat, 23 Jan 2010 14:10:40 +0000 http://goodgollymissblondie.com/?p=1903#comment-11275 Well Blondie, after doing "this," attracting and trying to attract men for about 45 years, I think that the key is being such a busy, happy person that you don't have time for them in your life. Somehow that makes you infinitely more attractive. Of course it sounds like you've got that part down, but a friend of mine was attractive, fun, etc., but literally reeked of loneliness and need, and her ticking clock was at maximum decibels, and men couldn't get away from her fast enough. Of course it helps if you’re blond and look like tits on a stick (they can’t help it, bless their hearts – I can say this because I’ve been happily married [to a man] for 20 years and have two sons). But the more you enjoy life, honestly, the less you’ll notice when they’re (men) not around. Love yourself (literally), cultivate intimate friendships that give you the companionship of a lover (w/out the sex), and live and love your life! You only get one chance, and if you keep looking around the corner, you may miss where you are! Ironically, I ponder this and other related issues on my blog – hope to see you there soon! Love you blog! You’re my kind-a gal! Happy Trails, cowgirl! http://verysmartgals.blogspot.com/ SueAnn Well Blondie, after doing “this,” attracting and trying to attract men for about 45 years, I think that the key is being such a busy, happy person that you don’t have time for them in your life. Somehow that makes you infinitely more attractive. Of course it sounds like you’ve got that part down, but a friend of mine was attractive, fun, etc., but literally reeked of loneliness and need, and her ticking clock was at maximum decibels, and men couldn’t get away from her fast enough.

Of course it helps if you’re blond and look like tits on a stick (they can’t help it, bless their hearts – I can say this because I’ve been happily married [to a man] for 20 years and have two sons). But the more you enjoy life, honestly, the less you’ll notice when they’re (men) not around. Love yourself (literally), cultivate intimate friendships that give you the companionship of a lover (w/out the sex), and live and love your life! You only get one chance, and if you keep looking around the corner, you may miss where you are!

Ironically, I ponder this and other related issues on my blog – hope to see you there soon! Love you blog! You’re my kind-a gal!

Happy Trails, cowgirl! http://verysmartgals.blogspot.com/

SueAnn

]]> By: Miss Blondie http://goodgollymissblondie.com/2010/01/just-throwing-this-out-there/comment-page-1/#comment-11272 Miss Blondie Fri, 22 Jan 2010 19:33:27 +0000 http://goodgollymissblondie.com/?p=1903#comment-11272 aww, Shane thanks! aww, Shane thanks!

]]> By: Miss Blondie http://goodgollymissblondie.com/2010/01/just-throwing-this-out-there/comment-page-1/#comment-11271 Miss Blondie Fri, 22 Jan 2010 19:33:13 +0000 http://goodgollymissblondie.com/?p=1903#comment-11271 I'm packing my bags!! I’m packing my bags!!

]]> By: Jenn http://goodgollymissblondie.com/2010/01/just-throwing-this-out-there/comment-page-1/#comment-11267 Jenn Fri, 22 Jan 2010 02:26:18 +0000 http://goodgollymissblondie.com/?p=1903#comment-11267 Yea I agree its got to be the BOSTON men.. they are mostly stupid I think. I would totally date you... lol Yea I agree its got to be the BOSTON men.. they are mostly stupid I think. I would totally date you… lol

]]> By: Emily http://goodgollymissblondie.com/2010/01/just-throwing-this-out-there/comment-page-1/#comment-11265 Emily Thu, 21 Jan 2010 05:30:08 +0000 http://goodgollymissblondie.com/?p=1903#comment-11265 Your post made me burst out laughing!!! Can I introduce you to my friend, Bill? He lives in Vermont and would love you. Seriously. Your post made me burst out laughing!!! Can I introduce you to my friend, Bill? He lives in Vermont and would love you. Seriously.

]]> By: Calgarydaddy http://goodgollymissblondie.com/2010/01/just-throwing-this-out-there/comment-page-1/#comment-11264 Calgarydaddy Wed, 20 Jan 2010 21:21:37 +0000 http://goodgollymissblondie.com/?p=1903#comment-11264 Because men in Boston are STUPID! WTF is wrong with them? Trust me...you are a catch. Then some! :) Shane Because men in Boston are STUPID! WTF is wrong with them? Trust me…you are a catch. Then some! :)

Shane

]]> By: Victoria http://goodgollymissblondie.com/2010/01/just-throwing-this-out-there/comment-page-1/#comment-11263 Victoria Wed, 20 Jan 2010 19:39:12 +0000 http://goodgollymissblondie.com/?p=1903#comment-11263 I think (just hypothesizin' here!) that it's the East Coast? I remember seeing a demographic chart somewhere that showed that the highest percentage of single guys were on the West Coast, and the highest percentage of single girls was on the East Coast...what do you think? :) I think (just hypothesizin’ here!) that it’s the East Coast? I remember seeing a demographic chart somewhere that showed that the highest percentage of single guys were on the West Coast, and the highest percentage of single girls was on the East Coast…what do you think? :)

]]> By: Brittany http://goodgollymissblondie.com/2010/01/just-throwing-this-out-there/comment-page-1/#comment-11262 Brittany Wed, 20 Jan 2010 17:56:39 +0000 http://goodgollymissblondie.com/?p=1903#comment-11262 I'd scoop you up if I was a man :) Heck I'd totally snuggle with you -- oh yeah...totally did! Love you!!!!! I’d scoop you up if I was a man :) Heck I’d totally snuggle with you — oh yeah…totally did! Love you!!!!!

]]> By: Allison http://goodgollymissblondie.com/2010/01/just-throwing-this-out-there/comment-page-1/#comment-11261 Allison Wed, 20 Jan 2010 17:42:05 +0000 http://goodgollymissblondie.com/?p=1903#comment-11261 I am the same way! I unfortunately (yes it is unfortunate) not single though and honestly I'd take single and happy over committed and miserable any day of the week! I am the same way! I unfortunately (yes it is unfortunate) not single though and honestly I’d take single and happy over committed and miserable any day of the week!

]]> By: Janessa http://goodgollymissblondie.com/2010/01/just-throwing-this-out-there/comment-page-1/#comment-11260 Janessa Wed, 20 Jan 2010 15:43:50 +0000 http://goodgollymissblondie.com/?p=1903#comment-11260 Guys seem to be unnecessarily threatened by totally independent women. Seems stupid if you ask me... Have hope, a good one will come along. I also drink beer, play video games and watch more sports than the average guy and I got a great hubby. lol Guys seem to be unnecessarily threatened by totally independent women. Seems stupid if you ask me… Have hope, a good one will come along. I also drink beer, play video games and watch more sports than the average guy and I got a great hubby. lol

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